Skip to content

Activities for a 35-Month-Old (2 years 11 months)

Activities for a 35-month-old: 44 activities in our library fit 35 months exactly, and 25 more that end just before it are still in the planner's mix. They are led by fine motor (7), gross motor (7) and practical life (7), last about 9 minutes, and 9 need no preparation at all.

Updated

A sample day for a 35-month-old

One plan shared by three caregivers, timed around the sample rhythm for this age. Shuffle for another day.

Monday · 2 years 11 months

  1. Morning caregiver

    07:00–13:00
    • Wake up, cuddle, diaper and dressing
    • Breakfast
    • Free floor play while you narrate a little
    • Tissue Box Mystery Feel

      5-10 min · Cognitive · Early concepts · Language

    • Outdoors: playground, and watch other toddlers play until 09:45
    • Morning snack
    • Books together: look, point, name, pause
    • Teddy's Two-Step Picnic

      5-15 min · Language · Creativity & pretend

    • Bubble Jar Twist and Blow

      5-10 min · Fine motor · Language

    • Lunch
    Words to model
    soft, first... then..., ball, roll
    Movement goal
    95 min
    Book idea
    A story with a small problem: ask “What will happen?” and wait
    Helping task
    Carry a napkin or a plastic cup to the table
  2. Afternoon caregiver

    13:00–17:00

    Handoff at 13:00: the morning caregiver passes on the words used so far (soft, first... then..., ball, roll) and how “Bubble Jar Twist and Blow” went.

    Words to model
    throw, sad, in, out
    Movement goal
    50 min
    Book idea
    A simple sequence story: talk about what happens first and next
    Helping task
    Pair socks from the clean laundry
  3. Evening caregiver

    17:00–20:00

    Handoff at 17:00: the afternoon caregiver passes on the words used so far (throw, sad, in, out) and how “When a Friend Cries: Helper Steps” went.

    • Helping: tidy up or help with dinner prep
    • Coat Flip on the Floor

      3-8 min · Practical life · Cognitive

    • Dinner
    • Calm floor play or music
    • Teddy's Doctor Check-Up

      8-15 min · Creativity & pretend · Social-emotional · Language

    • Two books and the bedtime routine
    • Bedtime
    Words to model
    arms in, sore, ball, roll
    Movement goal
    45 min
    Book idea
    A quiet goodnight book: whisper the last word of each page
    Helping task
    Cleanup song: toys back into the box

Movement across the day: 190 minutes in short bursts, indoors and out (WHO recommends at least 180 minutes of varied physical activity a day for 1- to 4-year-olds).

Why these fit at 35 months

  • Tissue Box Mystery Feel

    Your child reaches into a tissue box without looking and finds the object you name by touch alone, then checks it against a matching twin. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (30-36 months). Model "soft" while you play; if it is too hard, put just one object in the box, so any pull is a find.

  • Toy Car Trip Story

    Lay a painter's-tape road across the floor and drive toy cars to pretend places, chatting about where each car is going and taking turns telling the trip. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (30-36 months). Model "Where are you going?" while you play; if it is too hard, keep one stop on the road and tell the trip yourself, pausing for your child to say "go" or "stop".

  • Slow-Motion Animal Walk

    As a wind-down before a nap, bath or bed, the child copies slow animal walks such as a tiptoeing cat, a heavy elephant and a still flamingo, practicing balance and calm body control. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (26-36 months). Model "slow" while you play; if it is too hard, do only the tiptoe cat, holding their hand.

  • Paper-Page Picture Book Turns

    Reading a picture book with thin paper pages, your child turns one page at a time when you pause, joining the story as an active partner. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (26-36 months). Model "next page" while you play; if it is too hard, lift the corner of each page slightly so your child only has to pull it over.

  • Cozy Cushion Calm Corner

    You set up a corner with cushions, a blanket, a book and a stuffed animal, then sit there together when feelings run high, building calming with help. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (24-36 months). Model "cozy corner" while you play; if it is too hard, skip the corner and simply sit on the floor with your child and their stuffed animal when they are upset.

  • Sock Hang-Up on the Basket

    On laundry day, your child clips matching pairs of clean socks to the rim of the laundry basket with clothespins, like hanging washing to dry. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (26-36 months). Model "pair" while you play; if it is too hard, clip the pairs on yourself and let your child unclip them and drop them into the basket.

  • Dough Birthday Cake Party

    Your child shapes a play dough cake, adds dough-snake candles, sings, blows them out and shares slices with toys, acting out a familiar celebration in order. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (25-36 months). Model "birthday" while you play; if it is too hard, make the cake together and skip the candles: sing, blow and share.

  • Color Parking Lot for Cars

    Two colored sheets taped to the floor become parking lots, and your toddler parks each toy car on the sheet that matches its color. Why now: 35 months sits mid-band (26-36 months). Model "red" while you play; if it is too hard, use one sheet and cars of only that color, plus one very different car that parks 'at home'.

Activities for a 35-month-old by domain

Counted by each activity's main domain: 7 fine motor, 7 gross motor, 7 practical life, 6 early concepts, 5 pretend and creative, 4 cognitive, 4 language and 4 social-emotional.

No-prep menu for a 35-month-old

On a chaotic day pick any two. 9 of the 44 activities that fit at 35 months need nothing set up and last 10 minutes or less; here are 6.

  • Kick It Back to Me (5-10 min, outdoors): materials: a large, light soft ball; it practices kicking a ball.
  • Paper-Page Picture Book Turns (5-10 min, indoors): materials: a picture book with paper pages; it practices turning pages.
  • Clothespin Count on the Bucket (5-10 min, indoors or out): materials: 5 large spring clothespins and a sturdy plastic bucket; it practices squeezing and rolling.
  • Bubble Jar Twist and Blow (5-10 min, indoors or out): materials: a small bottle of bubble liquid with a screw lid and wand and a towel for drips; it practices twisting lids and knobs.
  • Sock Hang-Up on the Basket (5-10 min, indoors): materials: six to eight clean socks in pairs and four large spring clothespins; it practices household helping.
  • Slow-Motion Animal Walk (3-8 min, indoors): no materials needed; it practices balancing.

What is emerging at 35 months

Between checklist ages CDC uses the earlier one, so at 35 months the 30-month checklist (15 milestones) still applies, 5 months after it. The next checklist comes at 36 months, 1 month away; 4 of its items, each with a matching activity:

  • Settles within about 10 minutes after you leave, for example at a childcare drop-off. At 35 months you can practice it with Slow Bubble Breathing (3-6 min).
  • Spots other children playing and goes over to join them. At 35 months you can practice it with Tape Parking Lot for Two (10-15 min).
  • Eats with a fork. At 35 months you can practice it with Fork or Spoon? Dinner Choice (5-15 min).
  • Tells you what is happening in a picture or book when asked, such as "eating" or "running". At 35 months you can practice it with Tissue Box Mystery Feel (5-10 min).

Indoor and outdoor play at 35 months

Indoors only 27 activities, e.g. Three Jars, Three Lids
Outdoors only 8 activities, e.g. Chalk Road Car Trip
Either 9 activities, e.g. When a Friend Cries: Helper Steps
Active vs calm 9 active, 35 calm
Typical length about 9 minutes (middle of each activity's range)
Ready in under 5 minutes 28 of 44

A 7-day sample week for a 35-month-old

Two short focus activities a day, rotating domains the way our evidence-based program does, plus one practical-life moment and a few words to model. Everything else is free play, meals, outdoor time, books and sleep.

Sample week at 35 months
DayMorning focusAfternoon focusHelping momentWords to model
MondayShadow Stomp and WaveJump Down from the Bottom StepBrush and Hands Wash-Upshadow, behind, jump
TuesdayMystery Tote Bag GuessClothespin Count on the BucketFork or Spoon? Dinner ChoiceWhat is it?, soft, squeeze
WednesdayTape-Road Ball DribbleChalk Road Car TripCoat Flip on the Floorlittle kick, on the road, stop
ThursdayTube Garden CopycatDough Balls in an Egg CartonTeddy's Fork Picnicsame, corner, roll
FridayMelting Color Ice PucksDough Birthday Cake PartySock Hang-Up on the Basketcold, melting, birthday
SaturdayBedtime Day RecapTube and Block CityWashcloth Fold and StackRemember?, today we..., under
SundaySlow Bubble BreathingKnock-Knock Box HouseHand-Wash Picture Stepsslow, big bubble, Who's there?

After 35 months

No activity in the library starts after 35 months: the library stops at 36 months. Of the 44 activities that fit now, 3 began at 29 months or later and 9 have been in range since 24 months or earlier. Between them they list 140 harder versions, each changing one thing, so step up one variable at a time and use the "try it somewhere new" ideas on each activity page instead of hunting for new activities.

More for 35 months

Frequently asked questions

How should a 35-month-old play?

Mostly through short, hands-on play with you nearby: 44 library activities fit 35 months, led by fine motor (7), gross motor (7) and practical life (7). Each lasts about 9 minutes; follow your child's lead, model a word, pause and let them try.

How do I entertain a 35-month-old on a busy day?

Pick two from the no-prep menu: Kick It Back to Me, Paper-Page Picture Book Turns and Clothespin Count on the Bucket. 9 activities at this age need no setup and take 10 minutes or less.

How much should a 35-month-old talk?

The CDC 30-month checklist lists: uses around 50 words; strings two or more words together with one of them an action word, like "baby sleep"; tells you the name of a picture in a book when you point and ask what it is; refers to themselves or a group with words like "I", "me" or "we". By 36 months it adds: keeps a conversation with you going for at least two back-and-forth exchanges; asks "who", "what", "where" or "why" questions, such as asking where a parent is. If you are concerned, talk to your pediatrician; in the U.S. you can also contact Early Intervention directly.

How long should activities last at 35 months?

About 9 minutes: that is the middle of the typical activity length for the 44 activities that fit 35 months. Stop while it is still fun and repeat favorites often.

Monitoring, not medical advice. Talk to your pediatrician about any concern. Our sources and method.

Founder price

Toddler Daybook Pro opens soon

Family Pro: unlimited caregivers and children, printable weekly plans and pediatrician-ready progress reports (PDF), custom activities, and full history export Reserve the founder price: 30% off $39 one-time when Pro opens. No payment is taken now. Everything on the free plan keeps working today.

We'll e-mail you once when Pro opens, with your founder price. No account, no newsletter. See the privacy policy.